Your desire shall be contrary to your husband,
  but he shall rule over you. (Genesis 3:16)

1. Wife: in what ways have you been seeking to be contrary to your husband in his decisions, his vulnerability, and his seeking of your help?
2. Husband: in what ways have you been exerting rule over your wife instead of teaching, teaching and loving.
3. Wife: in what ways do you feel ruled over and how would you say or do the same thing differently without imputing blame or fault directly?
4. Husband: in what ways have you feel opposed by your wife and in what would you say or do the same thing differently within imputing blame or fault directly?